The Audio Version of Bringing Mom Home Is in the Works!

Every day when I log onto Facebook, I see posts from caregivers on a page called Memory People. It's a closed group, where those caring for a loved one ("LO") with dementia can share their frustrations, thoughts, ideas and everything else, with those who can understand.I used to be one of those people, picking her way carefully through the chaotic landscape of Alzheimer's Disease. Sometimes I write a note of advice or encouragement for these beleaguered caregivers. People need to be listened to. Attention must be paid.Sometimes I'd like to tell them, "It won't always be like this." But that's a two-edged sword. Their LO is unlikely to get better, and the only way the caregiver will find relief from the demands of caregiving is if their LO goes into a facility or dies, neither of which scenario can be properly thought of as a happy ending.But there is life after Alzheimer's, and these people will most likely feel happy again at some point.About this time a year ago I was on a plane to Portland to sit by my friend's bedside, where within a week I would watch her die. And yet, today I was in the studio recording an audio version of Bringing Mom Home. I haven't forgotten that trip to Portland, or my deceased friend. I haven't forgotten Mom. I miss them both. I miss my Dad, who died in 2002. And yet, my life has gone on, with its usual joys and sorrows. And surely (I'd say to the Memory People) yours will too.